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Growth And Development In Toddlers
Study Questions
Practice Exercise 1
An 18-month-old boy is being seen by the primary health-care provider for a well-child checkup.
Which of the following assessments would indicate a need for further investigation?
Explanation
Growth monitoring during well-child visits is essential for identifying potential deviations from normal growth patterns. At 18 months, a child’s weight, height, and head circumference should fall within expected percentiles on standardized growth charts such as WHO or CDC charts.
Rationale for correct answer:
3. Weight of 31¼ lb (approx. 14.2 kg) is above the 97th percentile for an 18-month-old boy, based on CDC and WHO growth standards. While some variation is normal, this value is not proportionate to average expected weight (~11–12.5 kg or 24–27.5 lb). A child with excessive weight gain may be at risk for early childhood overweight/obesity, especially if accompanied by poor dietary habits or low physical activity.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. Head circumference of 18¾ in (approx. 47.6 cm) is within normal range for an 18-month-old boy, typically 46–49 cm, or roughly the 50th–75th percentile. There is no concern if consistent with past measurements.
2. Height of 32¼ in (approx. 81.9 cm) is also within normal limits. Average height at 18 months is about 81–83 cm, placing this child around the 50th percentile, indicating proportional linear growth.
Take home points:
- A weight above the 97th percentile for age may indicate a risk for early obesity and requires further investigation.
- Nurses and providers should offer anticipatory guidance to families regarding:
- Healthy nutrition
- Active play
- Limiting sugary snacks and drinks
A nurse in a day-care center is observing a 2-year-old child during recess. Which of the following actions would the nurse expect the child to perform?
Explanation
Gross motor development rapidly advances during the toddler years, with 2-year-olds displaying increased strength, balance, and coordination. Observing children during play helps nurses assess whether a child is meeting age-appropriate physical milestones.
Rationale for correct answer:
2. At 2 years old, children are expected to demonstrate basic gross motor skills such as kicking a stationary ball forward, running with improved balance, and climbing onto and down from furniture without help. Kicking a ball requires balance and coordination, both of which are appropriate expectations for a toddler at this age.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. Riding a tricycle typically develops around 3 years of age. It requires more muscle strength, balance, and coordination than most 2-year-olds possess.
3. Climbing simple structures like stairs is typical at age 2, but climbing ladder rungs requires advanced coordination and upper body strength—skills more common in preschool-aged children, around 3–4 years.
4. While toddlers may enjoy exploring sand, the fine motor and cognitive skills needed to plan and build a sandcastle, using tools and constructing shapes are usually seen in older preschoolers.
Take home points:
- A 2-year-old should be able to kick a ball, run, and climb onto low objects.
- More complex gross motor activities like tricycle riding and ladder climbing typically emerge after age 2.
- Observing toddlers at play is a valuable tool for assessing gross motor and coordination milestones.
- Nurses should guide caregivers on what to expect at each age and promote safe, developmentally appropriate play.
The typical play activity in which toddlers engage is called:
Explanation
When evaluating a toddler’s social and play development, it’s essential to recognize the typical play patterns for this age group. Parents often express concern if their toddler seems to "play alone" even in the presence of other children. Understanding the expected style of play at various stages helps nurses educate caregivers and reassure them about normal development.
Rationale for correct answer:
2. Parallel play is typical in toddlers (generally between 1 to 3 years). During parallel play, toddlers play side by side with other children, often using similar toys or imitating each other, but they do not directly interact or share toys. It allows toddlers to begin observing and learning from peers while still enjoying autonomy.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. Solitary play is more characteristic of infants and young toddlers under 12 months, where a child plays alone with limited awareness of others around them. While occasional solitary play may persist, it is not the predominant form for toddlers.
3. Associative play typically emerges around 3 to 4 years, when children begin to interact and share materials but don’t coordinate activities or roles. Toddlers are generally not developmentally ready for this level of interaction.
4. Cooperative play usually occurs in the preschool years (around 4–5 years) and involves organized play with rules, roles, and shared goals, such as playing house or building something together. Toddlers do not yet demonstrate this complex level of social collaboration.
Take home points
- Parallel play is the hallmark of toddler social development: children play near each other but not with each other.
- This stage is normal and healthy, showing early peer interest without direct interaction.
- Solitary play is typical for infants; cooperative and associative play come later in the preschool years.
- Nurses should reassure caregivers that toddlers learning to play side-by-side is developmentally appropriate, and interaction will naturally evolve with age.
A mother asks which toy the nurse would suggest she purchase for her 15-month-old child. Which of the following would be appropriate for the nurse to recommend?
Explanation
When parents ask about age-appropriate toys, it's an opportunity for nurses to support safe, stimulating play that promotes a child's developmental progress. At 15 months, toddlers are in a stage of increased mobility, imitation, and exploration, so recommended toys should align with those emerging motor and cognitive skills.
Rationale for correct answer:
3. A toy shopping cart is ideal for a 15-month-old because it encourages gross motor development as the child pushes the cart while walking. It also supports pretend play and imitation, which are growing skills at this age and builds independence and confidence in movement and interaction with their environment.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. Model kits are made for older children, often requiring fine motor precision, patience, and small part handling, which are unsafe and inappropriate for toddlers.
2. Rattles are more suited to infants under 12 months, who are still developing grasping and sensory exploration skills. At 15 months, a child has typically outgrown simple rattles and needs more interactive play.
4. Board games require turn-taking, rule-following, and sustained attention, skills typically seen in children ages 4 and up. A 15-month-old would not understand or benefit from this type of play.
Take home points
- Ideal toys for 15-month-olds should support walking, pushing, pulling, stacking, and imitation.
- Safety is key, avoid toys with small parts or complex instructions.
- Pushing toys like toy shopping carts encourage both physical and imaginative development.
- Nurses should guide parents to select toys that match their child’s developmental stage, not just age in months.
The parents of a 2-year-old child state that their child begins nursery school in one week. Which of the following actions should the nurse advise the parents to perform on the child’s first day of school?
Explanation
Starting nursery school is a major milestone for a 2-year-old and often brings separation anxiety for both the child and parents. Toddlers at this age are learning to manage new environments, unfamiliar adults, and routine transitions. Nurses play a vital role in helping parents prepare their child for this change by promoting emotional comfort and developmentally appropriate coping strategies.
Rationale for correct answer:
4. Allowing the child to bring a comfort object, like a favorite blanket, toy, or stuffed animal, helps the toddler feel secure and reassured in a new setting. These objects serve as transitional items, providing emotional continuity between home and school.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. Quickly leaving the classroom when the child is not looking may increase the child’s anxiety and fear, as they may feel abandoned or confused. It’s important for the caregiver to say a brief but reassuring goodbye, helping the child understand that the separation is temporary.
2. Telling the child that teachers do not like bad boys and girls is inappropriate and shaming. It instills fear and undermines trust in the school environment. Toddlers should be encouraged with positive language, not threats or labeling.
3. Telling the child that big boys and girls never cry on their first day of school dismisses the child’s emotions and can invalidate their feelings. Crying is a normal expression of separation anxiety, and toddlers need empathy and reassurance, not pressure to suppress their emotions.
Take home points:
- Bringing a comfort object can ease separation and promote emotional security in toddlers starting school.
- Parents should be coached to say goodbye calmly and confidently, rather than sneaking away.
- Empathetic language and emotional validation are key during transitions like starting nursery school.
- Nurses should prepare caregivers to expect normal anxiety and provide tools to support a smooth adjustment.
Practice Exercise 2
A clinic nurse is caring for a 2-year-old client. During the examination the child’s parents ask the nurse when their toddler should be toilet trained. Which response by the nurse is most appropriate?
Explanation
Toilet training is the process of teaching young children how to recognize the need to use the toilet and manage their bladder and bowel control independently. It’s a major developmental milestone that typically begins between 18 months and 3 years, depending on the child’s readiness. Toilet training success depends on physical, cognitive, and emotional readiness, not just age or exposure.
Rationale for correct answer:
2. Sphincter control, understanding what the task involves, and the ability to delay gratification (waiting to go potty in the right place) are essential developmental milestones needed for toilet training readiness.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. Frequent potty chair exposure alone doesn’t ensure readiness. Without internal control and understanding, it can lead to frustration and resistance.
3. While many children show signs of readiness between 18–36 months, there is no universal age. Readiness varies widely.
4. Training pants are helpful during the process but don’t initiate readiness. Starting with physical and cognitive signs is more effective.
Take home points
- Readiness for toilet training is individual and based on development, not age.
- Look for signs like staying dry for 2+ hours, showing interest in the toilet, and following simple instructions.
- Support the child with patience and encouragement, avoid pressure or rigid timelines.
One indication that the toddler is ready to begin toilet training is:
Explanation
Toilet training is a significant developmental milestone in toddlerhood, often raising questions and anxieties for caregivers. Parents may wonder how to know when their child is ready. Nurses play a crucial role in guiding families by recognizing the signs of physical, emotional, and cognitive readiness that indicate the child can begin successful toilet training.
Rationale for correct answer:
1. A child recognizing the urge to void and being able to communicate this sensation to the parent is the most reliable indication that a toddler is developmentally ready to start toilet training. It shows the child has the neurological maturity to identify bladder or bowel sensations and the language and cognitive skills to express the need in advance.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
2. While nighttime dryness is a positive sign, it often occurs later than daytime control and is not a required precursor to starting toilet training. Some children master toileting during the day months or even years before achieving dry nights.
3. The child demonstrating mastery of dressing and undressing self is a helpful supportive skill, as pulling pants down is part of toileting. However, it is not the primary indicator of readiness. Children may still need help with clothing even when they're otherwise ready to begin toilet training.
4. The child asking the parent to have wet or soiled diaper changed shows growing awareness after elimination, but not anticipation of it. Recognizing a soiled diaper is less advanced than recognizing the urge before voiding.
Take home points
- Recognizing and communicating the urge to void is the clearest sign a child is ready for toilet training.
- Readiness is not based on age alone; it involves cognitive, emotional, and physical development.
- Supportive signs such as staying dry for a few hours and interest in toilet behaviors can help, but are not definitive.
- Nurses should guide parents to watch for readiness cues, avoid pressure, and create a positive, stress-free environment during training.
A mother brings her 3-year-old daughter to the well-child clinic and expresses concern that the child’s behavior is worrisome and possibly requires therapy or medication at minimum. The mother further explains that the child constantly responds to the mother’s simple requests with a “no” answer even though the activity has been a favorite in the recent past. Furthermore, the child has had an increase in the number of temper tantrums at bedtime and refuses to go to bed. The mother is afraid her daughter will hurt herself during a temper tantrum because she holds her breath until the mother picks her up and gives in to her request. The nurse’s best response to the mother is that:
Explanation
Temper tantrums are intense emotional outbursts that toddlers use when they feel overwhelmed, frustrated, or unable to communicate their needs. These meltdowns may include crying, screaming, kicking, falling to the floor, or refusing to cooperate.
Rationale for correct answer:
3. Around age 2 to 3, children enter a stage marked by increased autonomy and emotional expression. Saying “no” and exhibiting tantrums are part of testing boundaries and struggling to regulate emotions. Holding one’s breath during tantrums, although alarming, is not uncommon and rarely dangerous. This response reflects a developmentally appropriate understanding of toddler behavior.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. The child probably would benefit from some counseling with a trained therapist: This is premature and inappropriate for typical toddler behavior. Therapy is not warranted unless there are signs of a developmental disorder, self-injury, or ongoing severe dysfunction.
2. The mother and father should evaluate their childrearing practices: While parenting approaches may influence child behavior, this response can sound blaming or judgmental. It lacks the supportive tone needed to reassure and guide parents of toddlers.
4. The child’s behavior is typical of toddlers, and the parents should just wait for the child to finish this phase because this will end soon: Although this acknowledges the behavior as typical, it dismisses the caregiver’s concern and misses an opportunity to provide actionable strategies for managing tantrums and setting limits.
Take home points
- Saying "no" and throwing tantrums are normal expressions of autonomy in toddlers.
- Breath-holding spells, while distressing, are usually benign and self-limited.
- Nurses should validate caregiver concerns while reassuring them of developmental norms.
- Offer practical behavior management strategies, like consistent routines, limit-setting, and positive reinforcement.
A clinic nurse is meeting with a mother and her 3-year-old son. The toddler is acting out, and the mother asks the nurse what a good form of discipline would be for her son. The nurse recommends a “time-out” for the child. Which statement regarding a time-out is most accurate?
Explanation
Disciplining in children is the process of teaching them how to behave appropriately, make responsible choices, and understand the consequences of their actions. Time-out is a common and effective discipline strategy for toddlers when used appropriately and consistently.
Rationale for correct answer:
2. A general rule for time-out duration is one minute per year of age. For a 3-year-old, this means a 3-minute time-out, which is developmentally appropriate and helps the child calm down without feeling overwhelmed.
Rationale for incorrect answers:
1. Matching time-out length to the misbehavior duration is arbitrary and may result in excessive time-outs that lose effectiveness.
3. Allowing a child to read or play during time-out undermines the purpose, which is to remove attention and stimulation.
4. Toddlers can begin to sit for brief time-outs around 2–3 years old. Waiting until school age is unnecessary and misses early opportunities for behavior learning.
Take home points
- Use time-out for brief, age-appropriate durations, 1 minute per year of age.
- Ensure the environment is quiet and free from distractions.
- Be consistent and calm, avoid using time-out as punishment, but rather as a tool for calming and behavior correction.
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Objectives
- Articulate the key developmental milestones across biologic, cognitive, moral, spiritual, body image, gender identity, and social domains in toddlers (ages 1-3 years).
- Identify nursing interventions that promote optimum growth and development in toddlers, considering their unique needs and vulnerabilities.
- Discuss common concerns related to normal toddler growth and development.
- Analyze the impact of temperament on toddler behavior and development, and apply this understanding to individualized nursing care.
- Develop evidence-based strategies for promoting optimum health during toddlerhood, encompassing nutrition, sleep, activity, dental health, and injury prevention.
- Integrate knowledge of complementary and alternative medicine (CAM) and vegetarian diets into the nutritional counseling of parents of toddlers, recognizing potential benefits and risks.
- Educate parents and caregivers on age-appropriate safety measures to prevent common injuries in toddlers.
- Apply the nursing process to assess, plan, implement, and evaluate care for toddlers and their families, fostering healthy growth and development.
Introduction
- Toddlerhood, spanning the ages of 12 months to 36 months, is a period of remarkable growth and rapid development.
- Characterized by increasing autonomy, burgeoning language skills, and significant physical advancements, toddlers transition from dependent infants to increasingly independent individuals.
- This stage is crucial for establishing foundational cognitive, social, and emotional skills that will influence future development.
- Nurses play a vital role in supporting families during this transformative period, providing anticipatory guidance, promoting healthy behaviors, and addressing common developmental challenges.
- Understanding the nuances of toddler growth and development is paramount for delivering comprehensive and effective nursing care.
Promoting Optimum Growth And Development
- Promoting optimum growth and development in toddlers requires a holistic approach, considering all aspects of their physical, cognitive, social, and emotional well-being.
- Nurses act as educators, advocates, and care providers, guiding parents through this dynamic stage.
1.1. Biologic Development
- Biologic development in toddlers is marked by significant physical growth and maturation of body systems. While growth slows compared to infancy, it remains rapid.
- Weight: On average, toddlers gain approximately 4 to 6 pounds (1.8 to 2.7 kg) per year. By 2.5 years, their birth weight has quadrupled.
- Height: Toddlers grow about 3 inches (7.5 cm) per year.
- Head Circumference: Head growth continues, but at a slower pace than in infancy, reflecting continued brain development. By 2 years, head circumference is typically 90% of adult size.
- Fontanels: The anterior fontanel typically closes between 12 and 18 months of age.
- Body Proportions: The toddler's body proportions change, with the trunk and extremities growing faster, giving them a more elongated appearance than infants.
Nursing Insight: Deviations from expected growth curves such as weight, height, and head circumference can signal underlying health issues requiring further investigation.
- Gross Motor Skills:
- 12-15 months: Walks independently, creeps up stairs, stands without support, stoops and recovers.
Typical Toddler Gait

- 18 months: Runs stiffly, throws a ball overhand (without much accuracy), jumps in place with both feet, pulls/pushes toys.
- 24 months: Walks up and down stairs holding on, kicks a ball forward, stands on tiptoes, builds a tower of 6-7 blocks.
- 30 months: Jumps with both feet, stands on one foot momentarily, takes a few steps on tiptoes.
- 36 months: Rides a tricycle, alternates feet going up stairs, jumps over objects.
- Fine Motor Skills:
- 12-15 months: Uses a cup well, builds a tower of 2 blocks, scribbles spontaneously.
- 18 months: Manages a spoon without rotating, turns pages in a book (two or three at a time), builds a tower of 3-4 blocks, imitates drawing a vertical line.
- 24 months: Builds a tower of 6-7 blocks, imitates drawing a horizontal line, completes simple puzzles (3-4 pieces), unbuttons large buttons.
- 30 months: Draws circles, copies a cross, builds a tower of 8 blocks.
- 36 months: Copies a circle, draws a person with 2-3 parts, uses blunt scissors.
- Physiological Systems:
- Respirations: Slows to 25-30 breaths per minute. Airways are still relatively small, making toddlers susceptible to respiratory infections.
- Heart Rate: Slows to 80-110 beats per minute.
- Blood Pressure: Increases to approximately 90/50 mmHg.
- Thermoregulation: Improves but toddlers are still vulnerable to extreme temperatures.
- Immune System: Continues to mature, but toddlers still experience frequent infections, especially if in group childcare settings. Maternal antibodies are decreasing.
- Gastrointestinal System: Digestive processes mature, allowing for a wider variety of foods. Bowel control develops later.
- Renal System: Kidneys mature, and bladder capacity increases, contributing to readiness for toilet training.
Nursing Implications for Biologic Development:
- Monitor growth parameters (weight, height, head circumference) regularly and plot on growth charts.
- Provide anticipatory guidance on age-appropriate gross and fine motor skill development.
- Encourage opportunities for active play and exploration to enhance motor development.
- Educate parents on normal physiological changes and signs of illness.
- Advise on appropriate sleep patterns and rest.
- Emphasize the importance of a balanced diet for optimal physical growth.
1.2. Cognitive Development (Piaget: Sensorimotor and Preoperational Phases)
Toddlers are in the latter part of Piaget's sensorimotor stage and are transitioning into the preoperational stage.
- Sensorimotor Stage (12-24 months):
- Tertiary Circular Reactions (12-18 months): Toddlers actively experiment with objects, trying out new behaviors to see what happens (e.g., dropping a spoon repeatedly). They use trial-and-error to solve problems.
- Invention of New Means Through Mental Combinations (18-24 months): Toddlers begin to think before they act. They can solve problems in their minds and understand cause-and-effect relationships more abstractly. Object permanence is fully developed. They engage in domestic mimicry (imitating household activities).
- Preoperational Stage (2-7 years):
- Preconceptual Phase (2-4 years): This phase is marked by the beginning of symbolic thought.
- Egocentrism: Toddlers are unable to see situations from another person's perspective. They believe everyone sees the world as they do.
- Transductive Reasoning: Toddlers connect particular experiences, whether or not there is a logical casual relationship (e.g., "The sun sets because I go to bed").
- Animism: Attributing lifelike qualities to inanimate objects (e.g., "The doll is sad").
- Magical Thinking: Believing that thoughts or actions can cause events to happen (e.g., "If I wish for it, it will happen").
- Global Organization: If one aspect of a situation changes, the whole situation changes (e.g., new clothes mean a new identity).
- Centration: Focusing on one aspect of a situation and neglecting other important features.
- Irreversibility: Inability to mentally reverse a sequence of events or operations.
- Preconceptual Phase (2-4 years): This phase is marked by the beginning of symbolic thought.
Characteristics of Preoperational Thought

- Language Development:
- 12-15 months: Uses 4-6 words, imitates animal sounds, babbles with inflection.
- 18 months: Uses 10-20 words, uses two-word phrases ("want cookie"), points to familiar objects.
- 24 months: Uses 300 words, uses 2-3 word sentences, asks "what?" and "where?" questions, names familiar objects and body parts.
- 36 months: Uses 900-1000 words, uses 3-4 word sentences, uses pronouns (I, you, me), understands most of what is said, can give first name and age.
- Concept of Time and Space: Still limited to "now" and "here."
- Problem Solving: Moves from trial and error to more thoughtful approaches.
Nursing Implications for Cognitive Development:
- Provide opportunities for play that encourages exploration and problem-solving (e.g., stacking toys, simple puzzles).
- Engage in conversations with toddlers, encouraging language development through repetition, clear pronunciation, and expanding on their utterances.
- Read aloud to toddlers daily to foster language and cognitive skills.
- Acknowledge and respect their egocentric perspective, understanding it's a normal part of development.
- Use simple, concrete language when communicating with toddlers.
- Explain procedures in a way they can understand, using their level of cognitive development.
1.3. Moral Development - Preconventional or Premoral Level (Kohlberg)
According to Kohlberg, toddlers are in the preconventional or premoral level of moral development, specifically in Stage 1: Obedience and Punishment Orientation.
- Stage 1: Obedience and Punishment Orientation:
- Toddlers' decisions about right and wrong are based primarily on avoiding punishment and obtaining rewards.
- They do not yet understand the underlying reasons for rules; they simply obey to avoid negative consequences.
- Behaviors are judged as "good" or "bad" based on their immediate outcomes.
- Punishment is seen as a sign of badness, and obedience is a way to avoid it.
Nursing Insight: Behavior is motivated by reward/punishment. Discipline must be consistent, immediate, and focused on the action, not the child. Avoid shaming.
Nursing Implications for Moral Development:
- Set clear, consistent limits and consequences for behavior.
- Use positive reinforcement for desired behaviors.
- Explain rules in simple terms, focusing on the immediate impact (e.g., "Don't touch the stove, it's hot and will hurt you").
- Avoid lengthy explanations or abstract reasoning, as toddlers cannot grasp these.
- Focus on teaching simple concepts of right and wrong through consistent discipline and modeling.
1.4. Spiritual Development
Spiritual development in toddlers is largely influenced by their environment and the beliefs and practices of their primary caregivers.
- Learning through Imitation: Toddlers absorb spiritual concepts and rituals through observing and imitating their parents and family members.
- Concrete Understanding: Their understanding of spiritual concepts is very concrete and literal. Abstract ideas about God or spirituality are beyond their comprehension.
- Rituals and Routines: They may enjoy participating in religious rituals and routines, not necessarily understanding their meaning, but finding comfort and familiarity in them.
- Sense of Wonder: They have a natural sense of wonder and curiosity about the world around them, which can be a foundation for spiritual exploration later.
Nursing Insight: Spiritual understanding is concrete and imitative. Respect family's spiritual practices and accommodate rituals if they provide comfort. Avoid abstract spiritual discussions.
Nursing Implications for Spiritual Development:
- Respect the family's religious and spiritual beliefs and practices.
- Inquire about and accommodate family rituals that provide comfort (e.g., bedtime prayers).
- Recognize that spiritual development at this age is primarily observational and imitative.
- Avoid imposing religious views on families.
1.5. Development of Body Image
The development of body image in toddlers is a crucial aspect of their self-concept.
- Recognizing Self: Toddlers begin to recognize themselves as distinct from others, initially through self-recognition in mirrors and photographs.
- Labeling Body Parts: They learn to identify and name various body parts.
- Body Integrity: They have a developing, but still fragile, sense of body integrity. Minor injuries or procedures can be perceived as significant threats to their wholeness. They may believe their "insides" will fall out if they have a small cut.
- Gender Differences: They begin to recognize gender differences in body parts.
- Dress-Up and Imitation: They enjoy dressing up and imitating adult roles, which contributes to their understanding of body and self.
Nursing Implications for Development of Body Image:
- Use correct anatomical terms for body parts.
- Reassure toddlers about their body integrity during procedures or injuries.
- Allow them to explore their bodies (within appropriate boundaries) and answer their questions simply and directly.
- Minimize invasive procedures when possible, and prepare toddlers for them using age-appropriate language and visual aids.
- Encourage self-care activities like dressing and undressing to foster body awareness.
1.6. Development of Gender Identity
Gender identity, the inner sense of being male or female, begins to develop during toddlerhood.
- Awareness of Gender: Toddlers become aware of their own gender and that of others.
- Gender-Typed Play: They begin to engage in gender-typed play, often imitating the roles of same-sex adults.
- Labeling Gender: They can correctly label themselves and others as "boy" or "girl."
- Parental Influence: Parental attitudes and societal expectations heavily influence the development of gender identity.
Nursing Implications for Development of Gender Identity:
- Avoid gender stereotypes in play and language, allowing children to explore various interests.
- Support parents in fostering a positive self-image regardless of gender.
- Recognize that variations in gender expression are normal, and provide a supportive environment.
- Use inclusive language.
1.7. Social Development (Erikson: Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt)
According to Erikson, toddlerhood is characterized by the psychosocial crisis of autonomy versus shame and doubt.
- Autonomy: Toddlers strive for independence and control over their own bodies and environment. They want to do things for themselves (e.g., feed themselves, dress themselves). This is expressed through their frequent use of "no!" and desire for choices.
- Shame and Doubt: If toddlers are consistently shamed, ridiculed, or overcontrolled when attempting to exert autonomy, they may develop feelings of shame and doubt about their abilities and sense of self-worth.
- Differentiation of Self from Others: Toddlers are increasingly aware of themselves as separate individuals.
- Social Interactions:
- Parallel Play: Toddlers typically engage in parallel play, playing alongside other children but not directly interacting with them. They may observe each other but are largely self-focused.
- Imitation: They love to imitate the actions of adults and older children.
- Brief Cooperative Play: Towards the end of toddlerhood, brief episodes of cooperative play may emerge.
- Separation Anxiety: While typically less intense than in infancy, separation anxiety can still occur, especially in unfamiliar situations.
- Stranger Anxiety: Also less pronounced but can still be present.
- Negativism: A characteristic behavior where toddlers frequently say "no" or refuse to comply, as a way to assert their developing autonomy.
- Ritualism: The need for sameness, routine, and predictability. This provides a sense of security and control in a rapidly changing world. Deviations from rituals can cause distress.
- Possessiveness: Toddlers often have a strong sense of ownership over their toys and possessions and may have difficulty sharing.
Nursing Implications for Social Development:
- Provide opportunities for toddlers to make simple choices (e.g., "Do you want to wear the red shirt or the blue shirt?").
- Encourage self-feeding and other self-care activities.
- Set clear, consistent limits to provide a sense of security and structure, but allow for exploration within those limits.
- Avoid shaming or ridiculing attempts at independence.
- Facilitate parallel play opportunities.
- Prepare toddlers for changes in routine, and try to maintain established rituals when possible (e.g., bringing a favorite blanket to the hospital).
- Teach sharing, but understand that it is a developing concept.
- Reassure parents that negativism is a normal phase of development and not defiance.
Nursing Insight: Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt is core conflict. Offer limited, safe choices to foster independence. Avoid power struggles; allow them to do things for themselves.
Growth and Development in Toddlers

Temperament
Temperament refers to an individual's innate behavioral style and emotional characteristics. It influences how a toddler interacts with their environment and responds to various stimuli.
While not modifiable, understanding a toddler's temperament helps parents and caregivers adapt their parenting strategies.
Thomas and Chess identified nine characteristics of temperament, often grouped into three broad categories:
- Easy Child: Generally positive mood, adaptable, low or moderate intensity of reactions, regular and predictable biological rhythms. They adapt easily to new situations.
- Difficult Child: Irregular biological rhythms, negative mood, intense reactions, slow to adapt to new situations, and often withdraw from novel stimuli. They tend to be more challenging to parent.
- Slow-to-Warm-Up Child: Low activity level, generally negative mood, low intensity of reactions, adapt slowly to new situations, and may initially withdraw but eventually adapt if given time.
Nine Characteristics of Temperament (Thomas & Chess):
- Activity Level: Degree of physical motion during activity (e.g., high-energy vs. quiet).
- Rhythmicity (Regularity): Predictability of biological functions like hunger, sleep, and elimination.
- Approach/Withdrawal: Initial response to new stimuli, people, or places (e.g., immediate engagement vs. hesitation).
- Adaptability: Ease with which a child adjusts to changes in routine or environment.
- Intensity of Reaction: Energy level of response, whether positive or negative (e.g., loud laughter vs. quiet smile).
- Threshold of Responsiveness: Intensity of stimulation required to evoke a response.
- Quality of Mood: Predominant emotional state (e.g., cheerful vs. serious).
- Distractibility: Ease with which external stimuli can interfere with ongoing behavior.
- Attention Span and Persistence: Length of time an activity is pursued and ability to continue in the face of obstacles.
Nursing Implications for Temperament:
- Assess the toddler's temperament characteristics during health visits.
- Educate parents about temperament as an innate trait, not a reflection of their parenting skills or the child's "badness."
- Help parents understand their child's unique temperament and how to adapt their parenting style to promote a "goodness of fit" between parent and child.
- Suggest strategies for managing challenging temperaments (e.g., for a difficult child, maintain consistent routines, introduce new situations slowly; for a slow-to-warm-up child, allow time for adjustment).
- Validate parental feelings and offer support.
Coping With Concerns Related To Normal Growth And Development
- Toddlerhood is a period filled with developmental "tasks" that can present challenges for both the child and the parents.
- Nurses can provide valuable guidance and strategies for coping with these normal, yet sometimes frustrating, behaviors.
1.1. Toilet Training
Toilet training is a significant developmental milestone influenced by physical and psychological readiness.
- Readiness Signs (usually between 18-30 months):
- Physical Readiness:
- Ability to walk, sit, and squat.
- Has dry periods of at least 2 hours or wakes dry from a nap.
- Has regular, predictable bowel movements.
- Can pull pants up and down.
- Cognitive Readiness:
- Can understand and follow simple directions.
- Can communicate the need to go to the bathroom (verbally or nonverbally).
- Shows curiosity about using the toilet.
- Psychological Readiness:
- Expresses a desire for independence and control.
- Shows interest in the toilet and wants to imitate adults.
- Is not in a period of major stress or transition (e.g., new sibling, moving).
- Has a positive relationship with the parent.
- Physical Readiness:
Nursing Insight: Readiness, not age, is key. Educate parents on physical, cognitive, and psychological readiness cues. Starting too early causes frustration and delay.

- Nursing Interventions/Guidance:
- Patience and Positive Reinforcement: Emphasize patience, consistency, and a positive approach. Praise efforts, not just success.
- Avoid Punishment: Never punish for accidents. This can lead to fear, shame, and delayed training.
- "Readiness" Approach: Stress that training should begin when the child shows readiness, not when the parents are ready or when the child reaches a certain age.
- Equipment: Suggest a child-sized potty chair or a toilet seat insert with a step stool.
- Routine: Establish a consistent routine, such as taking the child to the potty after meals or upon waking.
- Dress: Suggest easily removable clothing.
- Bowel Training First: Often, bowel control is achieved before bladder control. Focus on one at a time.
- Nighttime Training: Nighttime bladder control usually develops after daytime control.
- Dealing with Resistance: If the child resists, stop training for a few weeks and then try again.
- Hygiene: Teach proper wiping and handwashing.
1.2. Sibling Rivalry
Sibling rivalry is a common phenomenon when a new baby enters the family, or even between existing siblings.
- Causes: Competition for parental attention, perceived loss of parental love, jealousy, and developmental stage (egocentricity).
- Manifestations: Regression (e.g., bedwetting, thumb-sucking), aggression towards the sibling, increased negativism, attention-seeking behaviors.
- Nursing Interventions/Guidance:
- Prepare the Toddler: Prepare the toddler for the new baby's arrival well in advance, involving them in preparations.
- Assure Love and Attention: Reassure the toddler of continued love and attention.
- Special Time: Dedicate special one-on-one time with the toddler each day.
- Involve the Toddler: Involve the toddler in the care of the new baby (e.g., fetching diapers, singing songs, helping with feeding).

- Avoid Comparisons: Do not compare siblings.
- Acknowledge Feelings: Validate the toddler's feelings of frustration or anger.
- Manage Aggression: Set clear limits on aggressive behavior.
- Encourage Play: Encourage positive interactions and parallel play.
- Gifts: Present a "gift" from the new baby to the toddler.
1.3. Temper Tantrums
Temper tantrums are common in toddlers and are a normal part of their development, reflecting their struggle between their desire for independence and their limited communication skills and impulse control.
- Causes: Frustration, inability to communicate needs/desires effectively, fatigue, hunger, overstimulation, desire for control/autonomy.
- Manifestations: Crying, screaming, hitting, kicking, throwing objects, breath-holding spells (less common but can occur).
- Nursing Interventions/Guidance:
- Prevention:
- Avoid situations likely to provoke tantrums (e.g., overtired, hungry).
- Offer choices (within limits) to give a sense of control.
- Prepare toddlers for transitions.
- Distraction.
- During a Tantrum:
- Remain Calm: Parents should remain calm and avoid escalating the situation.
- Ignore the Behavior (if safe): If the tantrum is for attention, ignore the behavior as long as the child is safe.
- Time-Out: Use a brief time-out (1 minute per year of age) for destructive or aggressive behavior.
- Safety First: Ensure the child is safe from injury.
- Avoid Arguing/Reasoning: Reasoning during a tantrum is ineffective.
- After a Tantrum:
- Offer comfort once the child has calmed down.
- Discuss the situation briefly and calmly, reinforcing rules.
- Return to normal activity.
- Consistency: Consistent responses from caregivers are key.
- Prevention:
1.4. Negativism
Negativism, characterized by a frequent "no" and resistance to suggestions, is a hallmark of toddlerhood.
- Causes: A natural expression of the toddler's developing autonomy and desire for independence. It's their way of asserting control.
- Manifestations: Saying "no" to everything, refusing to cooperate, doing the opposite of what is asked.
- Nursing Interventions/Guidance:
- Offer Choices: Give toddlers choices that are acceptable to the parent (e.g., "Do you want to wear the blue shirt or the red shirt?" instead of "Put on your shirt").
- Avoid "No" Questions: Phrase requests positively (e.g., "It's time to clean up" instead of "Do you want to clean up?").
- Limit Settings: Set clear and consistent limits to provide structure and security.
- Positive Reinforcement: Praise cooperative behavior.
- Humor and Playfulness: Sometimes, a playful approach can diffuse negativism.
- Patience: Remind parents that this is a normal developmental phase that will pass.
Nursing Insight: "No" is assertion of autonomy. Offer limited choices such as "Do you want the red or blue shirt?" and phrase requests positively to give a sense of control.
1.5. Stress
Toddlers can experience stress, even though they may not be able to articulate it. Significant changes or events can be stressful.
- Stressors: New sibling, moving, parental conflict/divorce, hospitalization, starting childcare, loss of a loved one, significant changes in routine.
- Manifestations: Regression, changes in sleep/eating patterns, increased irritability, clinginess, increased aggression, withdrawal, difficulty with toilet training.
- Nursing Interventions/Guidance:
- Maintain Routine: Whenever possible, maintain consistent routines.
- Predictability: Provide predictability and preparation for changes.
- Reassurance: Offer extra comfort, cuddles, and reassurance.
- Verbalize Feelings: Help the child verbalize feelings (e.g., "You seem sad").
- Play Therapy: Encourage play as a way for the child to express and process stress.
- Parental Support: Support parents in managing their own stress, as parental stress can affect the child.
- Professional Help: Recommend professional help if stress is severe or prolonged.
1.6. Regression
Regression is a temporary return to an earlier developmental stage in response to stress, illness, or changes in routine.
- Causes: New baby, hospitalization, illness, starting a new daycare, toilet training pressure, family conflict.
- Manifestations: Resuming behaviors like thumb-sucking, bedwetting (after being trained), wanting a bottle, increased clinginess, baby talk.
- Nursing Interventions/Guidance:
- Acknowledge and Validate: Acknowledge that the behavior is a normal response to stress.
- Avoid Punishment: Do not punish or shame the child for regressing.
- Provide Reassurance: Offer extra comfort and security.
- Focus on Underlying Cause: Address the underlying stressor if possible.
- Reinforce Age-Appropriate Behaviors: Gently encourage and praise age-appropriate behaviors when the stress subsides.
- Temporary Nature: Reassure parents that regression is usually temporary.
- Gradual Return: Expect a gradual return to previous developmental achievements.
Nursing Insight: Regression is a normal coping mechanism. Do not punish regressive behaviors. Provide extra comfort, address the underlying stressor, and gently encourage age-appropriate behaviors when the stress subsides.
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