A client is admitted to the hospital for a surgical procedure. The client tells the nurse that they are worried about the surgery, as they have a history of complications from anesthesia. The client also reveals that they lost their sibling a year ago due to a surgical error. The nurse suspects that the client is experiencing unresolved grief. Which of the following findings supports this suspicion?

Rationale: The nurse should encourage the client to express their feelings and emotions, as this can help them cope with the loss and work through the stages of grief. Suppressing or denying emotions can prolong or complicate the grieving process.

Incorrect options:

B) Advise the client to avoid reminders of their spouse for a while. - This is an incorrect action, as avoiding reminders of the spouse can hinder the acceptance of the loss and delay the resolution of grief. The nurse should help the client to acknowledge and honor the memories of their spouse, not avoid them.

C) Suggest the client to join a support group as soon as possible. - This is an incorrect action, as joining a support group may not be appropriate or helpful for every client. The nurse should assess the client's readiness and willingness to participate in a support group, and respect their preferences and choices. Some clients may prefer individual counseling or informal support from family and friends.

D) Tell the client that time will heal their pain and sorrow. - This is an incorrect action, as telling the client that time will heal their pain and sorrow can minimize or invalidate their feelings and experiences. The nurse should acknowledge and empathize with the client's pain and sorrow, and avoid clichés or platitudes that may sound insensitive or dismissive.

Rationale: The nurse should respond in a way that acknowledges and validates the client's feelings, and reassures them that they are coping well with their loss. The nurse should also help the client to understand that dating someone new does not mean that they are betraying or forgetting their partner, and that they have the right to pursue happiness and intimacy.

Incorrect options:

A) "It sounds like you are moving on with your life. That's good." - This is an incorrect response, as it implies that the client is leaving their partner behind or erasing their memory. The nurse should avoid using the term "moving on", as it can sound insensitive or dismissive of the client's grief. The nurse should use the term "moving forward" instead, as it conveys a sense of continuity and respect for the past relationship.

B) "It's normal to feel guilty about dating someone new. You should talk to your partner's family and friends about it." - This is an incorrect response, as it suggests that the client needs permission or approval from their partner's family and friends to date someone new. The nurse should respect the client's autonomy and privacy, and avoid interfering with their personal decisions. The nurse should also avoid implying that the client's guilt is normal or justified, as it can reinforce their negative feelings and beliefs.

D) "It's too soon to date someone new. You should wait until you are completely over your partner." - This is an incorrect response, as it imposes a rigid timeline or expectation on the client's grieving process. The nurse should recognize that grief is individual and variable, and that there is no right or wrong time to date someone new. The nurse should also avoid implying that the client will ever be completely over their partner, as this can deny or minimize the significance of their past relationship.