A nurse is caring for a client who has a new diagnosis of metastatic lung cancer. The client states, "I can't think about that until after my first grandchild is born next week." The nurse should identify the client's statement as indicating the maladaptive use of which of the following defense mechanisms?

A. Assess the need for physical restraints:
Assessing the need for physical restraints is not the first action to take in this situation. Physical restraints should only be considered as a last resort when there is an immediate threat to the patient or others. It's essential to attempt verbal de-escalation techniques and other non-coercive interventions before considering physical restraints.

B. Discuss the purpose of the medication with the client:
Discussing the purpose of the medication is an important step, as it can help the client understand why they are being asked to take it. However, it may not be the first action to take, especially if the client is highly agitated or manic. Attempting verbal de-escalation techniques, such as calming communication and active listening, should precede discussing the medication's purpose.

C. Stop the newly licensed nurse from administering the medication:
Stopping the newly licensed nurse from administering the medication without addressing the situation directly doesn't resolve the issue. It's important to equip the nurse with appropriate communication skills to handle the situation effectively. Preventing the administration of the medication is not the primary step; it's more about helping the nurse manage the situation appropriately.

D. Demonstrate how to verbally de-escalate the situation:
This is the recommended first action. Demonstrating verbal de-escalation techniques is crucial when dealing with an agitated or manic patient. The nurse manager can model effective communication strategies to help the newly licensed nurse manage the situation without resorting to physical interventions or restraints. Effective verbal de-escalation can lead to a more peaceful resolution and, ideally, the patient's acceptance of the medication without confrontation.

A. "I will do my best to avoid crying in front of my loved ones."
This statement suggests the client might be trying to hide their emotions, which can lead to further emotional distress. Suppressing emotions, like crying, is not a healthy coping mechanism and can exacerbate feelings of sadness and isolation.

B. “I will stay in bed on days when I feel exhausted."
Staying in bed excessively, especially during the day, is a behavior associated with depression and can worsen depressive symptoms. Encouraging the client to maintain a regular sleep schedule and engage in activities, even if they are small, is a more beneficial approach. Physical activity and exposure to natural light can positively impact mood.

C. “I’ll use the coping mechanisms that helped me in the past."
This is the correct choice. Reverting to previously effective coping mechanisms indicates an understanding of self-awareness and the ability to recognize what has worked positively in the past. Coping mechanisms such as relaxation techniques, hobbies, social support, or therapy can be valuable tools in managing depressive symptoms.

D. “I will avoid talking about events that upset me."
Avoiding discussions about upsetting events can prevent the client from addressing and processing their emotions, hindering the therapeutic process. Encouraging open communication and expressing feelings with a trusted individual, therapist, or support group can help the client work through emotional challenges.