A home care nurse is visiting an older adult client who tells the nurse that she is feeling tired, is unable to shop for groceries, and would like the nurse to shop for her. Shopping and performing personal errands for the client is prohibited in the nurse's job description. Which of the following is an appropriate nursing response?

Regression is a defense mechanism that involves reverting to an earlier stage of development or behaving in a way that is characteristic of an earlier developmental level in response to stress or anxiety. It is a way for individuals to cope with overwhelming emotions or situations by retreating to a previous, more comfortable state.

In the scenario described, the client's behavior of consistently being late for appointments and ignoring household chores while expressing the need to be taken care of indicates a regressive response to stress. By relying on others to take care of their responsibilities, the client is seeking a sense of security and support, similar to how they may have relied on others in the past, such as during childhood.

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A- Repression involves the unconscious blocking of unacceptable thoughts or impulses from conscious awareness.

B- Introjection is the internalization of values or qualities of another person or group.

C- Dissociation is a defense mechanism that involves detaching oneself from reality or the present moment to avoid emotional distress.

The appropriate response for the nurse in this situation would be: "I'll just sit here with you for a few minutes then."
This response acknowledges the client's expressed desire not to talk and respects their boundaries. It shows support and presence by offering companionship without pressuring the client to discuss their feelings. The nurse's willingness to sit with the client demonstrates empathy and provides a sense of comfort and reassurance.
The other options are not as appropriate:

1. "It might help you feel better if you talk about it." This response disregards the client's stated preference not to talk and may create a sense of pressure or intrusiveness. It is important to respect the client's autonomy and readiness to share their feelings.
2. "Why are you feeling so down?" This response directly asks the client to explain their feelings, which they have already indicated they do not want to discuss. It can be seen as intrusive and may make the client feel uncomfortable or defensive.
3. "I understand. I've felt like that before, too." While empathy is important, this response brings the focus back to the nurse's own experiences, potentially diverting the attention from the client. It is important for the nurse to remain focused on the client's needs and create a supportive environment for them to express their feelings if they choose to do so.