A nurse is speaking with a family member of a client who has a terminal diagnosis. The family member states, "I'm having a hard time letting her go." The nurse should recognize that the family member is experiencing which of the following types of grief?

• Postoperative ileus: Ileus is a common complication after abdominal surgery due to anesthesia, opioid use, and limited mobility. It presents as delayed return of bowel function, marked by absent bowel sounds and abdominal discomfort. In this case, the child has absent bowel sounds and increasing tenderness, supporting this risk.
• Atelectasis: Atelectasis generally presents with diminished breath sounds and hypoxia, not clear breath sounds. Although the child has shallow respirations and is refusing the incentive spirometer, there are no respiratory findings such as decreased oxygen saturation or adventitious breath sounds that support this condition currently.
• Peritonitis: Peritonitis would present with systemic symptoms like fever, severe abdominal pain, rebound tenderness, or signs of sepsis. The child has mild abdominal tenderness and stable vital signs, which do not indicate peritoneal inflammation at this time.
• Urinary retention: This would be characterized by lack of urination, bladder distension, or discomfort—none of which are noted in the scenario. The child’s urinary output and bladder status are not identified as concerns, making this diagnosis unlikely.
• Absent bowel sounds: This is a key clinical sign of ileus. After surgery, bowel activity should return gradually. Continued absence of sounds, especially along with abdominal tenderness, strongly indicates impaired gastrointestinal motility.
• Shallow respirations: While shallow breathing is often a contributing factor to respiratory complications, in the context of abdominal surgery, it also limits diaphragmatic movement, which can further suppress bowel activity and contribute to postoperative ileus.
• Clear breath sounds: This is a normal respiratory finding and does not support the presence of atelectasis or other pulmonary complications. It suggests that lung fields are adequately ventilated despite shallow breathing.
• Intact abdominal dressing: This is an expected postoperative finding and does not support a diagnosis of infection, wound complication, or ileus. It indicates proper surgical wound healing.

A. Trim the fat from red meat prior to cooking. Children with cystic fibrosis often have difficulty absorbing fats due to pancreatic insufficiency, but they actually need higher fat intake to meet their increased energy demands. Trimming fat is not necessary or recommended.
B. Provide a diet high in protein and calories. Children with cystic fibrosis require a high-calorie, high-protein diet to support growth, maintain weight, and compensate for the energy lost due to chronic lung infections and malabsorption.
C. Administer pancreatic enzymes 30 min after meals. Pancreatic enzymes should be given before or with meals and snacks to aid digestion. Giving them 30 minutes after a meal reduces their effectiveness.
D. Give the child hot foods to reduce the sense of fullness. There is no evidence to support using hot foods to manage fullness in cystic fibrosis. Instead, meals should be nutrient-dense and timed to optimize digestion and absorption.