An adult male was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer three weeks ago.

His wife approaches the nurse and asks how she will know that her husband's death is imminent because their two adult children want to be there when he dies.

Which is the best response by the nurse?

When a client refuses to look at their mastectomy incision and refuses to talk about it, the best response by the practical nurse (PN) is to respect the client's autonomy and validate their feelings. Option a) acknowledges the client's discomfort and provides reassurance that it is okay for them to decline looking or talking about the incision at the moment. It also offers support by letting the client know that the incision will be available for examination when they feel ready to do so.

Let's evaluate the other options:

b) "Would you like me to call another nurse to be here while I show you the wound?"
This response assumes that the client needs someone else present to address their refusal to look at the incision. While having another nurse present may be helpful for some clients, it is not the appropriate first response. Respecting the client's autonomy and providing support should be the initial approach.

c) "Part of recovery is accepting your new body image, and you will need to look at your incision."
This response may come across as directive and insensitive. It implies that the client must look at their incision as part of their recovery process, disregarding their feelings and personal choices. It is important to respect the client's autonomy and allow them to navigate their own healing journey at their own pace.

d) "You will feel beter when you see that the incision is not as bad as you may think."
This response invalidates the client's feelings and assumes that their concerns about the incision are unfounded. It is essential to respect the client's emotions and validate their experience rather than dismissing or minimizing their concerns.

In summary, when a client refuses to look at their mastectomy incision and refuses to talk about it, the best response by the practical nurse (PN) is to acknowledge the client's discomfort, respect their autonomy, and provide reassurance that it is okay for them to decline looking or talking about the incision at that moment. The client's readiness to address the incision should be honored, and support should be offered when they are ready.

Choice A rationale:

A bottle is generally much better than using a pacifier. This statement is not accurate. Prolonged bottle use, especially with sugary liquids like milk, can have adverse effects on a child's dental health. It can lead to an increased risk of cavities, similar to prolonged pacifier use.

Choice B rationale:

The bottle will assist in preventing thumb sucking. This statement is incorrect. While a bottle may provide comfort to a child, it does not prevent thumb sucking. Thumb sucking is a separate behavior that may also have dental implications if it persists beyond a certain age.

Choice C rationale:

Prolonged bottle use can increase the risk for cavities. This response is correct. Prolonged bottle use, especially with milk or sugary beverages, can expose the child's teeth to prolonged contact with sugars, increasing the risk of cavities. It's important for the nurse to educate the mother about the potential dental risks associated with extended bottle use.

Choice D rationale:

Using milk rather than juice helps to avoid tooth decay. While milk is generally considered a healthier choice than juice, the key issue in this scenario is the prolonged use of the bottle, regardless of its content. Prolonged bottle use with any liquid, including milk, can still increase the risk of cavities.