The nurse approaches a client who looks very sad and is sitting alone crying. Which is the best response by the nurse in this situation?

Explanation: When completing a family assessment for a victim of intimate partner violence, the nurse may identify characteristics of the abuser that contribute to the abusive behavior. Among the options provided, "Needy and possessive of the partner" is the characteristic of the abuser. Abusers often display controlling behavior, which includes possessiveness and excessive need for control over their partners. This possessiveness may manifest as jealousy, isolation, and an attempt to limit the victim's freedom and independence.

A. An ability to feel remorse for the abuse - This characteristic is less likely to be present in an abuser. Abusers often exhibit a lack of remorse for their abusive behavior and may blame the victim or external factors for their actions.

C. An inflated sense of self-esteem - While some abusers may exhibit arrogance and an inflated sense of self-importance, it is not a defining characteristic of all abusers.

D. Encourages the partner to have a life outside the intimate relationship - Abusers typically do the opposite; they often seek to isolate their victims from their support systems and limit their social interactions outside the abusive relationship.

The nurse's feelings of sadness, poor sleep, and mild depression after the death of the terminally ill client indicate that the nurse is experiencing grief, which is a normal reaction to loss. However, if the nurse is finding it difficult to cope with the grief or if the grief is significantly impacting the nurse's daily life and well-being, seeking therapy is the best action.

Option B suggests seeking therapy for dysfunctional grief, which can provide the nurse with professional support and coping strategies to navigate through the grieving process. Therapeutic interventions can help the nurse process the emotions associated with the loss and provide a safe space to express and explore feelings of grief and loss.

Options A, C, and D may be helpful in certain situations, but they may not directly address the nurse's unresolved grief:

A. Taking a leave of absence to pursue healing can be considered if the nurse's grief is severely impacting their ability to function and provide safe patient care. However, it may not be necessary for everyone, and seeking therapy would be a more specific and targeted approach to address the grief.

C. Using stress reduction strategies can be beneficial for managing stress and promoting overall well-being, but it may not directly address the specific grief experienced by the nurse after the client's death.

D. Seeking an informal forum for discussing death can be helpful in processing feelings and emotions related to death and loss. However, it may not provide the level of support and guidance that therapy can offer in resolving grief.