A nurse is reinforcing teaching about palliative care to a client who has cancer. Which of the following statements should the nurse make?

A. "My partner and I will use petroleum jelly with latex condoms.": Petroleum jelly should not be used with latex condoms as it can weaken the latex material, increasing the risk of condom breakage. Water-based lubricants are recommended with latex condoms.

B. "My partner and I will both use a condom during intercourse.": This is not necessary or recommended. Only one condom is needed, and using two (male and female condom) may cause friction and increase the likelihood of breakage.

C. "I will be able to remove my contraceptive sponge immediately after intercourse.": The sponge should be left in place for at least 6 hours after intercourse to allow its spermicide to be effective. Removing it immediately could reduce the effectiveness of the contraceptive.

D. "My partner will use condoms with spermicides, which works better.": This statement demonstrates understanding. Using condoms with spermicides can be an effective form of contraception, as the spermicide helps to kill or immobilize sperm, providing an additional layer of protection.

A. You wish you were no longer alive?: This response might sound accusatory and may invalidate the client's feelings. The nurse should express empathy and understanding instead of making the client feel misunderstood.

B. "It is common for people who have a terminal illness to feel that way.": This response validates the client's feelings by acknowledging the emotional distress that often accompanies a terminal illness. It normalizes the experience without minimizing it and opens the door for further discussion.

C. "Why do you wish you weren't alive any longer?": While this response is direct, it might sound too probing and may feel intrusive or dismissive of the client's emotional state. A softer, more empathetic approach is usually preferred.

D. "We should talk about the treatment plan your provider has suggested.": While discussing treatment plans is important, this response may deflect the client's emotional distress and shift the focus away from their immediate emotional needs. The nurse should first address the emotional aspect before discussing treatment.