A nurse is visiting with the partner of a client who recently died. The partner expresses guilt that they did not do more for their partner. Which of the following responses should the nurse make?

Choice A reason: Identifying when the client engages in splitting behaviors is more relevant to borderline personality disorder than schizoid personality disorder. Splitting is a defense mechanism where individuals fail to integrate positive and negative aspects of self and others into cohesive images. People with schizoid personality disorder typically exhibit detachment from social relationships and a restricted range of emotional expression, not splitting.

Choice B reason: Giving the client a choice of solitary activities aligns with the characteristics of schizoid personality disorder. Individuals with this disorder often prefer to engage in activities alone, as they feel more comfortable being by themselves than in social situations. Providing options for solitary activities can help meet the client's needs for privacy and personal space while also respecting their autonomy.

Choice C reason: Setting limits on the client's need for constant social contact is not applicable to schizoid personality disorder. In fact, individuals with this disorder typically do not desire social contact and may already isolate themselves. The intervention would be more appropriate for disorders where the individual seeks excessive social interaction.

Choice D reason: Assisting the client in identifying sources of anger may not be a priority in the care of someone with schizoid personality disorder unless there is a specific indication for it. These individuals often do not express emotions openly and may not experience or show anger in the same way as those without the disorder. The focus should be on interventions that respect the client's emotional expression, or lack thereof.

Choice A reason: Identifying the client's current stage of grief is crucial as it helps tailor the intervention to the client's specific needs. Understanding where the client is in the grieving process allows the nurse to provide appropriate emotional support and resources. It's the foundational step in managing complicated grief, as interventions may vary greatly depending on whether the client is in denial, anger, bargaining, depression, or acceptance.

Choice B reason: While physical activity can be beneficial for overall health and may help in managing symptoms of depression associated with grief, it is not the immediate priority. The nurse must first understand the client's emotional state before suggesting specific activities.

Choice C reason: Discussing the use of a spiritual grief counselor can be a valuable part of the healing process for some clients. However, this should come after assessing the client's beliefs and willingness to engage in spiritual counseling. It is not the first step in the care plan.

Choice D reason: Informing the client that feelings of anger are expected is part of educating the client about the grieving process. While it's important to normalize the range of emotions experienced during grief, it is more of a supportive intervention rather than a priority action.