A nurse is caring for a postpartum client who tells the nurse that she does not want any more children. The client asks which birth control method the nurse would recommend. Which of the following responses should the nurse make?

Choice A Reason:

"If it weren't for you and the hours we've spent talking, I don't think I would be on my way to getting my anxiety under control." While this statement acknowledges the importance of the nurse-patient relationship in helping with anxiety, it might imply a somewhat dependent stance. The ideal therapeutic relationship encourages patients to gain skills and tools to manage their issues independently.

Choice B Reason:

"I appreciate the time you spent with me. I have a better understanding of what I can do to manage my problem." This statement reflects the patient's acknowledgment of the nurse's support and guidance, resulting in a positive impact on the patient's understanding and ability to manage their concerns. It emphasizes the constructive nature of the nurse-patient relationship and the effectiveness of the interactions in addressing the patient's needs.

Choice C Reason:

"I really need to talk with you. You always give me good advice about how to address my anger issues." While seeking support and advice from the nurse is positive, the emphasis on always receiving good advice might suggest a more directive approach rather than collaborative exploration and problem-solving, which is often a goal in therapeutic relationships.

Choice D Reason:

"You've been kind to me when I was at a low point. Knowing you've had low points too was such a help. “While mutual understanding and empathy are crucial in the nurse-patient relationship, the statement may focus more on the nurse's experiences rather than the patient's progress or understanding. The primary focus should be on the patient's needs and growth.

Choice A Reason:

In the orientation phase is false. The orientation phase is focused on establishing rapport, building trust, and identifying the patient's needs and goals. It is too early to discuss termination during this phase.

Choice B Reason:

On the working phase is false. The working phase involves active problem-solving, goal attainment, and skill development. While progress is being made, it is not the appropriate time to introduce the topic of termination.

Choice C Reason:

When the patient brings up the topic is false. While it's important to be responsive to the patient's concerns, addressing the issue of termination solely based on the patient's initiation may not provide a comprehensive and planned discussion. The nurse should guide the conversation about termination at the appropriate time, considering the progress made in therapy.

Choice D Reason:

The termination phase is the final phase of the therapeutic relationship, and it involves discussing and planning for the conclusion of the therapeutic alliance. It provides an opportunity for the nurse and patient to reflect on the progress made, revisit goals, and discuss strategies for maintaining gains after the conclusion of the formal therapeutic relationship.